Pengembangan Buku Bantuan Diri untuk Membantu Remaja Memelihara Ikatan Kelekatan (Attachment Bond) yang Orangtuanya Bercerai SMA Se-DKI Jakarta
Abstract
Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menghasilkan suatu media berupa buku bantuan diri untuk membantu remaja SMA di DKI Jakarta yang orangtuanya bercerai memelihara ikatan kelekatan. Buku bantuan diri dapat digunakan secara individual maupun oleh guru bimbingan dan konseling dalam proses konseling. Buku bantuan diri yang dikembangkan terdiri dari tujuh bab. Bab 1 sampai dengan 4 merupakan pemahaman diri konseli mengenai perceraian dan perasaan peserta didik. Membantu peserta didik untuk menyadari, menerima, dan mengekpresikan perasaan. Pada bab 5 dan 6 merupakan treatment dalam buku. Membantu peserta didik memiliki harapan yang aman terhadap orangtua. Pada bab 7 yaitu mengenai pemeliharaan yang merupakan kesimpulan dan refleksi diri setelah merampungkan buku bantuan diri. Metode penelitian yang digunakan adalah Research and Development (RnD) model ADDIE (Analyze, Design, Develop, Implement, Evaluate). Tahapan model pengembangan yang dilakukan adalah analisis, desain, dan pengembangan. Alat pengumpulan data yang digunakan berupa angket dan pedoman wawancara. Penilaian media dilakukan oleh validator yang terdiri dari ahli media, ahli materi dan peserta didik. Dari hasil uji validasi tersebut diperoleh rata-rata persentase dengan validasi ahli media 93,26%, validasi ahli materi 93,75%, peserta didik 91,77%, dan guru bimbingan dan konseling 92,04%. Hasil pengembangan buku bantuan diri untuk memelihara ikatan kelekatan bagi remaja yang orangtuanya bercerai dikategorikan layak.
Kata Kunci : Ikatan Kelekatan (Attachment Bond), Buku Bantuan Diri, Model ADDIE, Perceraian
This study aims to develop a media that is a self help book to help high school adolescents in DKI Jakarta maintain attachment bond after their parents' divorce. The book can be used individually or by school counselors in the counseling process. The book consists of seven chapters. Chapters 1 to 4 discuss student's self-understanding of the divorce and their feelings. They help students realize, accept, and express their feelings. While chapters 5 and 6 are about treatments. They help students have secure expectancies to their parents. Chapter 7 is about self maintenance which is a conclusion and a self reflection after completing a self-help book. The method is Research and Development (RnD) with ADDIE model (Analyze, Design, Develop, Implement, Evaluate). The stages of the development model are analysis, design, and development. The technique of data collections is utilizing forms of questionnaires and interview. The evaluation of media was done by validators from the expert of media, the expert of material, students, and school counselors. Based on the validation test, it was obtained that the average percentage 93.75% of media expert, 93.75% of material expert, 91.77% of students, and 92.04% of school counselors. The result of the development of self help book is to help adolescents maintain attachment bond after their parents' divorce was categorized as appropriate.
Keywords: Attachment Bond, Self Help Book, ADDIE Model, Divorce
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