Gambaran Penerimaan Diri Siswa yang Mengalami Perceraian Orangtua
Abstract
Penelitian ini Bertujuan untuk mengetahui gambaran penerimaan diri remaja yang mengalami perceraian orangtua yang dialami oleh siswa Sekolah Menengah Atas di SMAN 14 Jakarta. Tema penelitian ini memfokuskan pada gambaran penerimaan diri, dampak perceraian orangtua terhadap remaja dan faktor yang berpengaruh terhadap penerimaan diri. Pengambilan sampel menggunakan teknik critical case study berjumlah 2 orang. Penelitian ini bersifat kualitatif deskriptif dengan metode riset naratif (narrative research). Pengumpulan data melakukan wawancara mendalam (in depth interview) secara online, observasi melalui video call dan call whatsapp serta studi dokumentasi. Data tersebut didukung dengan data tambahan dari wawancara Guru BK, Wali kelas, dan Teman Sebaya. Hasil penelitian ini menyimpulkan bahwa siswa yang mengalami perceraian orangtua memiliki penerimaan diri yang cukup baik mereka mampu belajar dari perceraian yang orangtua yang mereka alami. Mereka memiliki permasalahan masing-masing disekolah yaitu pencapaian akademik yang rendah pada responden perempuan dan pergi dari mata pelajaran pada responden laki-laki. Namun di masa sekarang mereka sudah belajar dari perceraian orangtua mereka dan menjadi kekuatan untuk bangkit dari perceraian orangtua mereka.
Kata Kunci: Penerimaan diri, Siswa, Perceraian Orangtua
Abstract
This study aims to describe the self-acceptance of adolescents who experience parental divorce experienced by high school students at SMAN 14 Jakarta. The theme of this research focuses on the picture of self-acceptance, the impact of parental divorce on adolescents, and the factors that influence self-acceptance. Sampling using a purposive sampling technique amounted to 2 people. This research is a qualitative descriptive with a narrative research. Data collection conducted in-depth interviews (in-depth interviews) online, observation via video call and WhatsApp call, and documentation study. This data is supported by additional data from interviews with counseling teachers, homeroom teachers, and peers. The results of this study concluded that students who experienced parental divorce had good enough self-acceptance that they were able to learn from their parents' divorce. They have their respective problems in school, namely low academic achievement for female respondents and moving away from subjects for male respondents. But in the present they have learned from their divorce parents and become the strength to rise from their parents' divorce.
Keywords : Self-acceptance, Student, Parental Divorce
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